I did some house-cleaning. It really is very therapeutic. Seeing clutter also makes one feel more stressed. Reducing clutter and putting things in their proper places not only clears some spaces but also clears the mind.
I segregated all his belongings. He left me with a lot of them. Up to this time, I still don't know if I should throw them away or not. Included are books, reference materials, about 3 shirts, seminar manuals and other stuff. I just decided on having all of them in one box and kept away from my sight for he might still need those. Am I being very considerate? Besides, I don't actually know where to send them for I don't know where he lives now.
I also kept wedding photo frames, albums and other family pictures out of my sight. Well, of course I had to pull them down from the walls. I just kept my children's photos on display. I had to keep all reminders of him away from me. After all, it's just me and the kids now.
About my wedding ring, well, I sold it. He lost his a few days after our wedding anyway. Isn't that a clear sign that the marriage is not going to last?
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